what turns women on

Your spouse was sick and you quickly suggested that you take her to a clinic. You thought that your quick intervention by suggesting that you take her to the clinic would project you as an action man, a loving husband. But instead of achieving that you saw her very angry with you.

You have missed her love language. Perhaps she desired a “Touch”. Do you know that there is healing in touching. The incident in the ministry of Jesus teaches lesson on this.

And, behold, a woman, which was diseased with an issue of blood twelve years, came behind him and touched the hem of his garment: For she said within herself, if I may but touch his garment, I shall be whole. But Jesus turned him about, and when he saw her, he said, Daughter, be of good comfort; they faith hath made thee whole. And the woman was made whole from that hour (Matt. 9:20-22).

Going to the clinic may be okay but your spouse’s love language at this particular time is, Touch. Your touch may bring all the healing that your wife needs and save you the money you will give to a doctor.

You travel out every time. Each time you come home you buy her some gifts. But she does not seem to appreciate. You wonder why. Perhaps she is looking for quality time for togetherness. Make time for her. Do not make her a widow while you are alive. This is not to say that gifts are not okay. But to some wives, what is the gift without the man? It is not good that the man should be alone. The woman too!